Growing Up Differently

However I started noticing in my early to late teens and into my twenties that these so-called friends that I had known all my life never called me just to say hi and to see what I was doing, even though I would from time to time call them to see how they were doing and I could never figure out why until later in life when I started studying people and success habits.

The 3 Pillars Of Confidence - No.3

This is the last part of the confidence triangle, and the most crucial part. Self-esteem is so dependent upon other things in our life, especially our sense of belonging and achievement, if you have it, one of the other two are surely to blame.

Confidence Killer (1) - Trapped in the Past

There are many confidence killers in our everyday life, but some are more lethal than others. This first killer is a pre-occupation with the past. Somehow, we find it difficult to extricate ourself from past actions and so we rob ourself of a future.

I'm OK - You're OK

Roll back your life to the point in time just before that event. But here's the catch: you can't take with you any of the knowledge and skills you've accumulated since the event. You must go back to being exactly the same you from before the event took place. Now, ask yourself this question: Given a second chance, but being exactly who you were then, could you really change anything?

Betrayal Of The Soul - Lessons Learned From Emotional Abuse

What happens when we find ourselves involved with a relationship that doesn't feel right to our soul? If we run after the make believe story, we tend to shut off connection to our sense of what is real. We betray our souls.

Growing Self Esteem By Action

Do you love yourself? Then why don't you do for yourself what you do for your loved ones?

Immigrant Women and Their Struggles

I was born in the United States and raised in Haiti. I moved back to the United States at the age of eleven. Being a witness to the struggles faced by my mother, a single...

Self-Esteem - Don't Let These People Influence You

What are you letting people say to you that is hurting your self-esteem? Learn the best way to increase your self-esteem so that you can do anything you desire to do without self-doubt.

Self-Esteem - Building Low Self-Esteem

Women all over the world suffer from low self-esteem. Are you on of these? Some common signs of low self-esteem are...

What's in a Name? (3) The Enslavement of our Children

Does the way Black children are behaving have anything do do with the slavery of their ancestors? With Britain currently commemorating the 200th anniversary of the Abolition of the Slave Trade, it got me thinking about the real legacy of slavery on Black people, particularly in how we perceive ourselves, the names we use and the way our low self-esteem affects our children.

Self Confidence Via Flight, Fight Or Freeze Let's Freeze

Ever feel like your brain is working against you when you are in a heated discussion? For some people even the simplest conversation can be stressful. Don't worry you can become much more comfortable in these stressful situations.

Self Worth Via Fight, Flight or Freeze

We all have strategies for boosting our self confidence. Some of ours will actually work against us in the long run. Do you need a new strategy?

The Process of Anger - Part 2

Remember that you become the victim of your emotions when you are limiting yourself! Read the article for more information.

The Process of Anger - Part 1

It is necessary to remember that our emotions come from the body. Find out more about the importance of controlling your emotions.

Secrets to Self-Confidence

Take charge of your life. Do not let the surrounding control you. Time to change for a better person in your life.